Before you get married
discuss all the bills you and your partner will have( a lot if you don't keep up),
Parenting,
Credit and Debt, Religion
What beliefs you will grow your children up with
Sexual expectations,
Point of views,
How to deal with each others families,
Political views or even views from outside your marriage,
* MOST IMPORTANTLY TALK ABOUT EACH OTHERS TRAUMAS and find ways you and your partner can help each other.
Commit to someone that helps you grow everyday and does not bring you down. `
And make sure you have both common ground and separate interests.